Have been watching over the patience paramita for many years now after I learned about it at the Berkeley Buddhist Monastery with Rev. Master Heng Sure and nowadays when I meet people I am much more generous with them and there is not much prejudice, opinion or ideas about them. Try to act like a mirror and just reflect what they really are and relationships are awesome. Also try to avoid gossiping about people in general as a daily practice. Not sure if that is an act of kindness and if I deserve to download the Paramita CD but it was what came to mind as part of my current experience. Peace and joy.